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spider4
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 Posted - 03/14/2010 : 9:05:09 PM
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| me and my wife were wondering,due to our problem being a sexual mental block,and being very private people,we would simply like to know that when she is in the suggestive state,would it be possible for me to step in and make the suggestions,we know exactly what we want to try and unblock |
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patrickg
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Posted - 03/14/2010 : 10:11:23 PM
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It's possible, but working with family/spouses is not always a good idea..
Can try it... or have her record what she wants to hear and play it back for her when she is ready. |
Patrick Glancy, CI, BCH
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mark derbyshire
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spider4
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Posted - 03/15/2010 : 09:32:28 AM
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| well i was trying to be a little more private about this problem,but obviously more detail may be needed.me and my wife used to have a sort of swinger lifestyle,more directly,i used to like to watch her with other men.and this was something she enjoyed but also felt quilty for enjoying.she felt so strongly about one of the guys we did this with,that we ended up breaking up for a bit(and yes i understand that is a risk of such choices)her problem is she confused feelings of love on her part and the fact that it was just sex on his part.so it hurt her feelings.shes also gained a good deal of weight,thus also limiting her energy level and desire for sex.now heres the interesting part,she now is very adament that she will not sleep with another man again,that she wants to concentrate on us,however as a result of this we hardly have sex.however i am still persistant in trying to get her back into it,and i notice when i make uo stories for her of her either being with another man in front of me or even going somewhere to have sex without me,she gets extremely horny,and wetter than she ever gets when we just engage in normal sex.she has even said in discussion that yes if she was sleeping with strangers or guys other than me it would probably be more exciting,but she just wont go there again.thus like i said,less sex for me(the irony is i can generally only get a erection when i think or we discuss this,i know thats probably a psychological issue,will save that for later,lol.)ok so my thought on this and given how she reacts,she has a block that wont let her reengage in what we mutually enjoyed,but she still definately has a sub consious desire for it.would it be possible in the suggestive state to bring this out and let her feel comfortable with doing it.see in a way i think the outward block she has used is that she feels she is not being true/faithful to me and the weight gain.but all her subconsious tells me she wants it bad.could a hypnotist in the suggestive state even manipulate so that she brings that back out and that its even her idea.i know this sounds weird,but this is our relationship.and the other thing and the reason i asked if i could step in and make the suggestions,is that this is very private to us,and she would be horrified if a stranger discussed any of this in her consious state. |
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patrickg
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Posted - 03/15/2010 : 10:23:22 AM
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I doubt suggestions from you will have any effect with this situation since you are involved in the 'problem'.
Also, the problem behaviors are going to be significant; guilt, shame, regret, sadness, self-esteem....... along with whatever background behaviors are involved with the lifestyle that led up to the current issues.
IMHO any direct suggestion hypno will be wasted effort.
For a long term fix to the issue, you're going to need to talk to someone. Analytical hypnosis would be a viable option. Or, more conventional CBT or talk therapy... possibly individually and as a couple. |
Patrick Glancy, CI, BCH
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someone besides the hypnotist making suggestion?
