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Posted - 03/30/2008 :  2:31:29 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
this started happening a few months ago. basically there is this girl that im really good friends with but whenever i now see her i get physically sick. i start feeling very queasy and feel like throwing up. its gotten to the point where even if she just calls or texts me to hang out later in the day, this reaction will be set off and ill feel queasy. i cant even eat around her.

for example, yesterday i was eating with friends and she called me wanting to hang out and at that point i could instantly feel the change from normal to wanting to vomit. i couldn't eat another bite.

i know its all in my head but i cant seem to control it. any thoughts and/or solutions? thanks


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Posted - 03/30/2008 :  7:42:31 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Sounds like a very frustrating situation. One I could relate to when I was younger.

It is the same basic framework for absolutely any emotional reaction triggered by a person's environment. Fear of spiders, elevators, PTSD, panic attack or fear of public speaking. They vary in the emotions involved and the severity. Rarely make logical sense. Based off of previous experience. Neural connections or thoughts make. Can vary greatly in how easy or difficult they are to "release" or change.

There is no "one size fits all" fix for your situation. It may take care of itself or it may stick around and affect your life to varying degrees.

Just a thought - have you let her know about your reaction? If you were in my office, I'd first ask you if you have something on your mind that you need to come to terms with in regards to your friendship. Either something you need to talk with her about or something you need to settle in yourself. For example: if the above is the case, resolving it will probably stop the reaction.

What do you think?

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Posted - 03/30/2008 :  8:03:37 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
We've been having sort of an on and off relationship. I haven't told her of this situation and would be too embarrassed to.

Another thing is that this problem is getting bigger. Now sometimes without her influence, I get that queasy feeling when I eat food. I'm scared this will take over my life.

Would you suggest going to a hypnotherapist?
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Posted - 03/30/2008 :  10:07:11 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote

Something to think about - when you are with her, how much of your discomfort is your reaction and how much of your discomfort is because of your reaction? If the initial anxiousness causes you stress, than the overall anxiousness may feel worse as your stress to the anxiousness gets higher.

Hope the previous paragraph does not end up as confusing to you as it was confusing for me to write...

A good clinical hypnotist should be able to help reduce or do away with your anxiousness. If the anxiousness is about unresolved 'issues', and you don't deal with it in hypnosis, the anxiousness will tend to reappear later. The hypnosis would then be more of a band aid than a fix.

Does that make sense?

My 2 cents on the little I know of your friendship. Girls are much more comfortable with opposite sex platonic friendships than guys are. Guys tend to be friends with females they are attracted to. Makes me assume (a dangerous thing) that some of your reaction has to do with how your dealing with that.

Let me know how it goes :)j


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Posted - 03/30/2008 :  10:56:19 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Well during these past few months, this problem at one time period for about a month or so had almost completely gone away. It then resurfaced for some reason.

Whenever I know im going to meet her in advance, I get very anxious and then stressed about my anxiety which then exponentially grows till the point where im feeling too bad to even see her.

On the other hand if I just run into her randomly, I don't really feel bad unless im with her for a while and I start worrying about getting queasy, then I do end up getting queasy.

We're more than platonic friends. We've actually been sexually active in the past. It seems there's always sexual tension between us.

Now im slowly seeing this problem, this sick feeling, being anchored to other parts of my life. I'm feeling this sickness more often.

Anyways I will check out a certified hypnotherapist in my area. Thanks for your help.
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