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vloweer
5 Posts |
 Posted - 12/08/2010 : 1:37:02 PM
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My family is suddenly demanding to go to work, gain money, settle down and I'm scared to death!
I'm 21, studying in foreign country. I'm very self-dependent, I do everything by my self, I never ask for any help, if I don't know how to do something I search and learn until I can do it.
I always do things like that BESIDES with money. I feel frustrated and helpless at the same time. I hate that I am dependent and I am terrified to go to work. My body reacts strongly and tries to isolate myself with pain or diseases and fear
I'm really thankful to my family that I can study and in a foreign country and I feel awful that I can't pay for myself. Yes I'm shy and lazy but, but it's not the reason i don't want to work. When I'm in a foreign environment (like at somebody's house, at colony) I transform - I'm very slogger and even niggling with everything I do (getting my bed right and ending every exercise few days before the date).
I don't really know how to overcome this fear and how I got it - probably after my family's behaviors (everyone are living to the next month, money was never there and all the rich people were in this evil life).
And I'm scared because my mother already called people saying that I'm desperately looking for a job and I have to go to the meetings! D:
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patrickg
USA
724 Posts |
Posted - 12/08/2010 : 1:42:48 PM
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Hello,
You said you're not self-dependent, and that this fear is just around work?
Something else you said that I'm not clear on. What is slogger and niggling? |
Patrick Glancy, CI, BCH
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vloweer
5 Posts |
Posted - 12/08/2010 : 1:56:03 PM
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Sorry for not being clear.
I meant, that I'm independent and always doing and deciding things without any help. But I'm scared to get a job even if this means that I'm dependent of my family - which I hate.
Slogger and niggling - I wanted to say that I find myself working hard and being perfectionist in this situations |
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patrickg
USA
724 Posts |
Posted - 12/08/2010 : 2:00:33 PM
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| Ok... so, if I made an educated guess and said "you were afraid of failing or being ridiculed/corrected." Would that sound more accurate than saying you're afraid of work? |
Patrick Glancy, CI, BCH
www.salemhypnosissolutions.com |
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vloweer
5 Posts |
Posted - 12/08/2010 : 2:25:13 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by patrickg
"you were afraid of failing or being ridiculed/corrected." Would that sound more accurate than saying you're afraid of work?
I don't really feel that these are the problems. I'm not sure if it's fear of being ridiculed- I always make fun of myself with others and I laugh, corrected - I'm often right about things in my family, so maybe this one, failing - if I failed it'd be sad but it wouldn't be the end of the word. So maybe these feelings are not that important, or maybe I don't realize it yet ...
And yes, this would sound more accurate, but I don't know why I'm afraid of work, so I wrote that. |
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patrickg
USA
724 Posts |
Posted - 12/08/2010 : 2:31:16 PM
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Just navigating through the issue to figure out what is the problem and what is not can be helpful.
Ok, so maybe not completely accurate, but more accurate than "afraid of work". There is a fear that does not show itself in personal or social situations, and is present in the thought of being at a job..? or losing the job? |
Patrick Glancy, CI, BCH
www.salemhypnosissolutions.com |
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TonyM
United Kingdom
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Posted - 12/01/2012 : 09:13:51 AM
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| I use to have a fear of working, but it was because I was too independent I guess, so I started my own business. Yours might be the same or it could stem from a social problem. |
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andrea15
United Kingdom
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| I would say you need analytical hypnotherapy to get to the bottom of your fears. I think you have a confidence issue or self esteem and also some conflict between wanting to get everything right and not falling into the trap of being successful and therefore evil? You feel more comfortable psychologically in struggling. I think you would probably make a very successful career if you could let yourself. Analysis is the way forward I believe. |
Andrea Lowe
Hypnotherapist/analyst, NLP Practitioner and trainer
www.AndreaLoweHypnotherapy.co.uk |
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